People Leaves..

“But sometimes they wont fight for you. Sometimes they will just leave, without even hesitating.You need to be prepared for that. They will leave, and there’s not a thing you can do. Your perspective about them: destroyed. The person you love; gone. Not gone and ‘might be coming back’ gone. Really gone - because even if they might be coming back, everything you thought you knew and appreciate about them is gone - just because of the fact that you know they didn’t fight. Not that they need to put more effort into anything basically it’s just that I thought ending 5 years of a relationship would be a process and not just happen over night. it simply makes you rethink every moment. Which is worse than suddenly being alone now, because it feels like you have always been but you were just thinking you’re in love in someone who would fight.”

—Elay Neal Moses, 2016 (via coachela)

Scare Them

" Keep scaring them with your honesty, with your strength, with your kindness, with your love, with your understanding, with your words, with your eyes, with your presence and with your ability to read them. Keep reading them until you find someone who is just as fearless as you are and who won’t get scared off that easily, someone who is just as scary as you are that it starts to scare you.

Maybe you scare them because you don’t need them. Because they know you can survive without them, because they know that you won’t wait for them, because they know you will stand up for yourself and because they know that you will not allow yourself to be another number on their list.

Maybe you scare them because you value yourself, because you’re strong enough to walk away and because you’re smart enough to know your worth. Maybe they got so used to being put on a pedestal that they don’t know how to be anywhere else.

No matter what the reason may be, keep scaring them."

 
—@ranianaim via @thoughtcatalog <3